When parties are in conflict and they cannot settle an issue on their own, they often commence court proceedings because they think that is the best way to achieve their goals. However, experienced family lawyers know that court is actually the opposite of the best approach. Taking matters to court is time-consuming, confusing, and expensive. Seeking orders from court should be used sparingly and as a last resort. The better way to deal with disputes is through alternative dispute resolution processes. In comparison to court, parties are able to have more control over the process, spend less money, and get a faster result. At Dubin Legal Advocacy, we recommend various forms of alternative dispute resolution processes to finalize family law matters with the same strength and finality as a court order.